Venues

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Planning

Venues

A venue is not chosen the way it is sold. It is sold on photographs of an empty room in good light, and it is experienced as a hundred and twenty people moving between a bar, a lavatory, a smoking area and a dance floor for nine hours. Those are different objects, and almost every regret about a venue comes from having judged the first without testing the second.

This hub is written from the operational side. How a room behaves once it is full, where the queues form, what the weather does to a plan, and what is actually inside a venue quotation as against what appears on the final invoice.

None of it is about prettiness, which the photographs already cover perfectly well. It is about flow, capacity and money, which they do not.

What is actually in a venue quote

Venue pricing takes three broad shapes, and the differences between them are larger than the headline figures suggest.

Dry hire is the room and nothing else, or close to it. The figure looks small because it is small, and everything else, catering, staff, furniture, glassware, bar, lighting, cleaning, security and often the licence, is bought separately. Dry hire suits people who genuinely want to build the day themselves and have the time to do it. It punishes anyone who assumes the venue will quietly handle the gaps.

Packaged pricing bundles the room with a catering minimum, a drinks package and a defined set of inclusions. It costs more on paper and frequently less in total, because the venue is buying at trade volumes and because the parts are specified to fit each other.

Minimum spend is a third shape that behaves like neither. There is no hire fee; instead the venue requires that a stated amount is spent across food and drink. It reads as generous and is simply a hire fee expressed differently, and it has one specific hazard: a minimum spend set for a hundred guests does not shrink when the guest list does. If numbers fall, the same total is still owed, and the shortfall is usually made up in wine nobody drinks.

The lines that sit outside almost every quotation

Ask about each of these by name, because they are commonly excluded and individually significant: corkage, cake-cutting charges, staff overtime past a stated hour, extension of the licence past midnight, chair covers and linen, cleaning and waste removal, security where the licence requires it, a supplier meal count, and a damage deposit. None of these are hidden in a dishonest sense. They are simply not in the number on the front page.

Corkage, and how it really works

Corkage is a charge per bottle for drink the venue did not sell you. It exists because a venue’s margin is in the bar rather than in the room, and a couple bringing their own wine removes that margin. It is a legitimate charge and it is also the line where couples most often miscalculate.

The arithmetic is simple and rarely done. Take the corkage rate per bottle, add the price of the wine you would actually buy, and compare that total with the venue’s own list price for a comparable bottle. Frequently the saving is small. Sometimes there is no saving at all, and the couple has carried, stored and insured several hundred bottles for nothing.

Where corkage genuinely pays is at the top of the list: on champagne and on anything the venue marks up heavily. Where it rarely pays is on house wine, where the venue’s buying power is close to yours and the corkage rate eats the difference.

Day of week and season, which move the price more than anything

The same room, on the same specification, is a different price on a Saturday in July and a Thursday in November, and the gap is routinely a third or more. That is straightforward supply and demand, and it is the largest single lever available to a couple who are flexible.

Friday has become the practical compromise for many, because it is materially cheaper than Saturday and does not ask guests to take two days off. Sunday is cheaper again and carries a real cost in attendance from anyone travelling. Midweek in winter is the cheapest of all, and it is a perfectly good wedding for people whose guest list is local.

Seasonality is not only about price. A November wedding needs a wet-weather plan that actually works rather than one that exists on paper, and it needs the room to be usable in the dark from four in the afternoon, which changes the lighting decisions completely.

Licensing, which is the thing that cannot be worked around

In England and Wales a civil ceremony may only take place at a register office or at premises approved for civil marriage, and approval is granted by the local authority to the specific rooms rather than to the venue as a whole. GOV.UK sets out the position, and it is worth reading before falling for anywhere, because a beautiful barn with no approved room means a ceremony somewhere else and a very different day.

Scotland and Northern Ireland work differently, and more flexibly in some respects, because the authorisation attaches to the person conducting the ceremony rather than to the building. That is why an outdoor ceremony on a hillside is straightforward in Scotland and complicated in England.

The separate question is the alcohol licence, which governs when the bar closes and often when music must stop. A venue with a licence to midnight is not a venue you can persuade into one o’clock on the night, and an extension, where one is possible at all, is applied for in advance.

Marquees and field weddings, briefly

A wedding in a field is not a cheaper wedding in a building. It is the construction of a temporary venue, and everything a building provides invisibly has to be bought: floor, power, water, lavatories, lighting, heating, parking, waste and access for vehicles that are heavier than the ground expects.

Done well it is superb, and it is the only route to a wedding in a specific place that matters to you. Done on the assumption that it saves money, it disappoints, because the infrastructure alone frequently costs more than a packaged venue would have. The capacity page in this hub puts published hire prices against that claim.

What to do with all of this

Visit at the time of day and the time of year you intend to marry, or as close as you can manage. Walk the route from the ceremony to the bar to the lavatories and back, and count the doors. Ask what happens when it rains, and then ask where the other eighty people go while it does. Ask for the quotation with every excluded line named, and read the wet-weather plan as an operational document rather than a reassurance.

The pages below take each of those apart in turn, starting with flow, which is the one that decides how the day actually feels.